a friend shared an interesting story…an unlikely story…a few hours after sharing the story she sent me a text message saying it was nice she shared it coz she realized that she has finally moved on…
sometimes it is really difficult to realize that we have already moved on…sometimes we fail to see that we are no longer hurting because we are already so used to the pain that we feel it is already part of us…and to realize that we have moved on we think we need to see something new to happen…something great…something so noticeable it could not be me mistaken for anything else…but most of time nothing great will happen…no sparks from somewhere…no fireworks…no band playing when we go home…we just need to really focus on how we feel so that we can see little changes that when put together will tell us we have moved on…it’s hard to describe what these little changes are…the little changes that will matter to me are probably different from the little changes that will mean something to you…
so, does it mean that when we realize that we have moved on we can already be happy…for many people yes…for some no…as said, some of us get so used to the feeling of hurting that when we realize that we are no longer hurting we miss the feeling…then we go back to the start where we feel we could not move on – this time from having moved on…crazy?…yes!…but that is what happens to some of us…so how do you really move on?…just tell yourself you have moved on…disregard whatever your emotions tell you…just decide that you have moved on…
does this make sense?…i’m not really sure…but i hope it does…wink
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