I have been offered amnesty program by Standard Chartered Bank. This should tell you that I am having problems paying that account. So what am I writing this blog for when I know I am the one at fault? Well I just want to tell my experience about this 'amnesty' offer of Standard Charter Bank.
I was given an offer for amnesty program. The caller said I need to pay a certain amount before I get the application form. The amount given was the minimum for that month. It's lower than the total overdue amount. So I paid that amount. The caller also said my next payment (with the fixed which was less than half the usual amount due) would be the following month. I was waiting for a call about the application for over a week. Nobody followed up. Then somebody called and talked to me in a sarcastic voice. She was asking why I did not pay. I said I was offered the amnesty program. She said it does not show in her record (she's probably in front of her computer looking for it as she was talking to me). She said things that implied I was lying about receiving an offer. I said it was Standard Chartered who offered, I didn't ask for it. Then all of a sudden she sounded as if she knew everything about the application (probably something popped up in her monitor). She said the offer lapsed on (she gave a date). She said I did not submit the application before the end of the offer. That date she gave was just a couple of days after the offer. I paid the day after the offer was given but I didn't get form which was supposed to be sent through email.
The following week I received a call from a male caller telling me that I have been sent a new application for amnesty. The amount I was supposed to pay monthly is now different from the previous offer. I downloaded the application and sent it back through them through fax. Then I got a call asking if I have already submitted the requirements. I said yes but the payslip was sent only the day after. He said it's okay. He'll just retrieve my application from where it was received. I paid what I was supposed to pay. I thought everything's fine already. Just a while ago, I again received a call from Standard Chartered Bank asking me to pay the minimum amount for the month. I said I have an application for amnesty. The caller, a girl again, was speechless for a while. Then she put me on hold (she probably had to do a quick search in the computer). When she came back she said it has probably voided because usually if its over a month already it means it is voided. Notice that her tone shows she is not sure of what she was saying. The use of probably and usually tells that she wasn't 100% sure of her facts. She was nicer than the first caller so I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I said I want to ask her something but I asked her not to take it personally. I asked if they really intend to give their clients amnesty program or do they just offer the program to them to 'force'/'entice' them to pay the minimum amount required for the offer to be officially given. I asked if this is a ploy they do to get at least the minimum. She said no. She said they really give genuine offers. If I were in a bad mood, my question would have been 'are you fooling us?'
I asked her again if there is really an official endorsement from Standard Chartered Bank that the application was voided. I said I want to really know because it was only a week after I received the email when a follow up was made and that's definitely not a month ago because if it were then I missed Christmas. She was again unsure of her words. Then she put me again on hold. When she came back she said they count from the time the offer was made.
My question now is "Does Standard Chartered Bank really offer amnesty program or they just make false offers to make people their 'required minimum amount'?"
Monday, December 19, 2011
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Christmas Gifts for Men I - 10 Gift Ideas for Your Boyfriend, Brother, Father, Friend or Boss (but mainly for the boyfriend)
There are a lot of bazaars now in the metro because Christmas is fast approaching. As I write this, we'll be celebrating Christmas in 25 days, 13 hours and 50 minutes so expect more bazaars to open up even for just a week or two. Bazaars become popular because it is a good place to find good gift items at reasonable prizes. But that is not the point of this post. This is all about Christmas gifts for men. I would often hear from bazaar goers that it is more difficult to find gifts for men than for women. There is some sense to this observation. There aren't as many choices of gifts for men so women just settle for basic gifts like t-shirts, neckties, faux wallets, pens and hankies. They may not complain when they receive these gifts but I know they would also want to receive something that was well thought of. I'll be giving you some suggestions about this. This list includes some of the basic choices I already mentioned but I'll give tips on how you can make them look more exciting.
1. Spa package. Yes, I know this is a bit expensive. But don't worry, there are a lot of discount sites (like ensogo, cash cash pinoy, metrodeal, etc) now where you can buy vouchers at very, very low prices. Men love to be pampered like women. But many men do not feel comfortable going to one especially if they are alone. So give them a gift certificate. If they have the gc already they will surely go to the spa shy or not. Or better yet, get a gc for two and join him.
2. A buffet treat. The best way to a man's heart is through his stomach. True? True! Men love to eat so he will surely love the idea of getting the chance to eat everything that he wants. There are a lot of places where you can treat him to a buffet (eat all you can). There are also a lot of offers in discount sites.
3. A gadget. Boom! There goes your 13th month pay. I am only suggesting this to those who really have a lot of money to burn. But if you do not have much, you can just settle for accessories. A nice protective thingy for the tablet would be appreciated (but I would suggest you give original versions). Earphone/Headphone is also a good idea.
4. Shirt. Yes! You can still give him a shirt. But make sure you look for the right size. Knowing if he's S, M, L or XL is not enough. You see an S in one store is not necessarily the same as the S in another. And even within a store, an S in one rack can be different from the S in another rack. Design affects the size. So how do you make this gift special? A safe way would be to find that hard-to-find shirt he likes. There are men who are obsessed with this or that jersey from Nike or this or that new statement shirt from NatGeo or this or that new design from A & F. You may need to order these from abroad so better start deciding now. A not so safe way would be to experiment a bit. Give him a shirt that is not like the usual shirts he wears. Find something a bit trendier. Who knows, he might have been planning to have that design but is just afraid to try.
5. Car Accessories. If you cannot afford to give a car, give him some accessories. lol. I'm not referring to the dogs with heads bobbing up and down and the plastic sunflowers with flapping leaves when there is sunlight. Give him stuff like sun shield, car matting stuff, eyeglasses/sunglasses holder, cellphone/laptop charger, etc.
6. Unique Beer. If your guy drinks beer, give him a six pack of a unique beer brand. Go to a liquor store and ask the salesclerk for a brand that is not sold in sari-sari stores or even in bars in the metro.
7. Gumball dispenser (with gumballs lol). Who says that gumballs are only for kids? Men love gumballs. Look for a mini gumball dispenser (similar to dispensers in malls where you insert coins to get your round chewing gum) over the internet and order one. This is something your guy can bring to the office. Gumballs are good stress relievers, you know.
(If you are 'on a budget')
1. Socks. Men need socks everyday so giving them socks is very practical. But remember that sports socks are different from formal socks. If the guy spends most of his time in the office wearing tie, find him dress socks. If he is into casual clothes always, give him some less formal socks. If you do not know the difference, ask the salesladies. They would be more than willing to help you. But again, this is not a strict rule because surely, the man in the suit sometimes plays ball and the man in jeans sometimes sips wine.
2. Handkerchief. Like socks, men need this everyday. But please do not give them hankies with their name embroidered on one corner. Men do not like other people to know their names when they are blowing their nose in public. And stick to safe colors -- white, blue, gray -- plain if possible.
3. Boxer shorts. This is the in thing among men. Men wear boxers over their undies before they wear their pants. Men also wear boxers to bed. Some men wear boxers when they go to the neighborhood convenience store. Giving your guy a pair or two would be safe. But please, even if you are on a budget, please find a good brand so it would last long.
The title says Gifts for Men I. This means there is going to have at least a Part II so watch out for that.
1. Spa package. Yes, I know this is a bit expensive. But don't worry, there are a lot of discount sites (like ensogo, cash cash pinoy, metrodeal, etc) now where you can buy vouchers at very, very low prices. Men love to be pampered like women. But many men do not feel comfortable going to one especially if they are alone. So give them a gift certificate. If they have the gc already they will surely go to the spa shy or not. Or better yet, get a gc for two and join him.
2. A buffet treat. The best way to a man's heart is through his stomach. True? True! Men love to eat so he will surely love the idea of getting the chance to eat everything that he wants. There are a lot of places where you can treat him to a buffet (eat all you can). There are also a lot of offers in discount sites.
3. A gadget. Boom! There goes your 13th month pay. I am only suggesting this to those who really have a lot of money to burn. But if you do not have much, you can just settle for accessories. A nice protective thingy for the tablet would be appreciated (but I would suggest you give original versions). Earphone/Headphone is also a good idea.
4. Shirt. Yes! You can still give him a shirt. But make sure you look for the right size. Knowing if he's S, M, L or XL is not enough. You see an S in one store is not necessarily the same as the S in another. And even within a store, an S in one rack can be different from the S in another rack. Design affects the size. So how do you make this gift special? A safe way would be to find that hard-to-find shirt he likes. There are men who are obsessed with this or that jersey from Nike or this or that new statement shirt from NatGeo or this or that new design from A & F. You may need to order these from abroad so better start deciding now. A not so safe way would be to experiment a bit. Give him a shirt that is not like the usual shirts he wears. Find something a bit trendier. Who knows, he might have been planning to have that design but is just afraid to try.
5. Car Accessories. If you cannot afford to give a car, give him some accessories. lol. I'm not referring to the dogs with heads bobbing up and down and the plastic sunflowers with flapping leaves when there is sunlight. Give him stuff like sun shield, car matting stuff, eyeglasses/sunglasses holder, cellphone/laptop charger, etc.
6. Unique Beer. If your guy drinks beer, give him a six pack of a unique beer brand. Go to a liquor store and ask the salesclerk for a brand that is not sold in sari-sari stores or even in bars in the metro.
7. Gumball dispenser (with gumballs lol). Who says that gumballs are only for kids? Men love gumballs. Look for a mini gumball dispenser (similar to dispensers in malls where you insert coins to get your round chewing gum) over the internet and order one. This is something your guy can bring to the office. Gumballs are good stress relievers, you know.
(If you are 'on a budget')
1. Socks. Men need socks everyday so giving them socks is very practical. But remember that sports socks are different from formal socks. If the guy spends most of his time in the office wearing tie, find him dress socks. If he is into casual clothes always, give him some less formal socks. If you do not know the difference, ask the salesladies. They would be more than willing to help you. But again, this is not a strict rule because surely, the man in the suit sometimes plays ball and the man in jeans sometimes sips wine.
2. Handkerchief. Like socks, men need this everyday. But please do not give them hankies with their name embroidered on one corner. Men do not like other people to know their names when they are blowing their nose in public. And stick to safe colors -- white, blue, gray -- plain if possible.
3. Boxer shorts. This is the in thing among men. Men wear boxers over their undies before they wear their pants. Men also wear boxers to bed. Some men wear boxers when they go to the neighborhood convenience store. Giving your guy a pair or two would be safe. But please, even if you are on a budget, please find a good brand so it would last long.
The title says Gifts for Men I. This means there is going to have at least a Part II so watch out for that.
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Sparkle Spa
Last night, my friends and I went to a spa. We were 12 guys. We went to Sparkle Spa in Paranaque (located at the side of Robinson's -- Merville). We got a voucher from Metrodeal so we got some pampering at a 'pampered' rate -- really good rate. We got a voucher worth PhP 150.00 which is good for a hot oil treatment, back massage and hand and foot reflexology.
We didn't arrive at the Sparkle Spa at the same time. It's good because only 6 of us could have the treatments at the same time. This means we were divided into two batches.
So how did it go? First we had our hair washed. Then the hot oil was applied. Some massaging was done on the scalp. Then a 'foil' was wrapped on the head -- I looked like one of the coneheads. Then we were brought upstairs for the rest of the treatment. I chose the reclining chair over the bed. The person assigned to me is named Rose. She did the hand reflex first. It was good although I felt it would have been better if she used less oil. But its ok since the oil is unscented anyway. After the hand reflex, she washed/cleaned my feet with hot towel. Then she did the foot reflex. This for me is the best part. She applied the right pressure. It was very relaxing. My feet needed that. Then after awhile she did the back massage. This one is the least on my list because it was short and I had experienced better back massage. It's not bad. It's just that I had better. Then after the back massage, we went downstairs again to finish the hot oil treatment.
It was a relaxing evening except that we had to commute home. Sigh.
Note: Sparkle Spa has wifi.
We didn't arrive at the Sparkle Spa at the same time. It's good because only 6 of us could have the treatments at the same time. This means we were divided into two batches.
So how did it go? First we had our hair washed. Then the hot oil was applied. Some massaging was done on the scalp. Then a 'foil' was wrapped on the head -- I looked like one of the coneheads. Then we were brought upstairs for the rest of the treatment. I chose the reclining chair over the bed. The person assigned to me is named Rose. She did the hand reflex first. It was good although I felt it would have been better if she used less oil. But its ok since the oil is unscented anyway. After the hand reflex, she washed/cleaned my feet with hot towel. Then she did the foot reflex. This for me is the best part. She applied the right pressure. It was very relaxing. My feet needed that. Then after awhile she did the back massage. This one is the least on my list because it was short and I had experienced better back massage. It's not bad. It's just that I had better. Then after the back massage, we went downstairs again to finish the hot oil treatment.
It was a relaxing evening except that we had to commute home. Sigh.
Note: Sparkle Spa has wifi.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Different Responses or Replies - Replying Behavior of Guys/Boys/Men
After months or years of being with your boyfriend/boy friend, you can already predict what his reply will be when you send him a message. Guys are not really very creative with their replies. That is if they reply at all. Here are the different replies of boys/men.
1. SKY PATROL reply
The SKY PATROL reply is sent to you when you send the text message "I'm here already. Where are you?" (Translation: D2 na me, wer na u?) The reply is like a report from the sky patroler of TV Patrol. "Traffic in EDSA is heavy. It's a bumper-to-bumper situation. There seems to have been an accident near the flyover. That's where the bottle neck is. (Translation: Masikip ang daloy ng trapiko sa kahabaan ng EDSA. Bumperrrr to bumperrr dito. Mukhang may nangyaring kalunos-lunos na banggaan sa may lugar papaakyat ng flyoverrrr. Doon nagkakabuhol-buhol.)
The traffic excuse is an overly used excuse. It is a convenient answer for guys. For them it is a good excuse because (a) it is always heavy traffic in Metro Manila so chances are you'll believe him and (b) girls won't spend/waste time to verify if there is really heavy traffic where he says there is -- or would you?
2. ON the WAY reply
This is still in response to the same question in number 1. "I'm on the way already." (Translation: Papunta na. A variation would be "nakasakay na.")
Do you think this gives a clear answer? NO? No, it does not. It could mean a lot like (a) I just left the house, (b) I just got on the bus, (c) I'm near, (d) I'm halfway there, (e) I'm just about to leave the house, etc.
Confusing reply, right? That is actually what guys want to achieve. They do not want to tell you something that you can later on question. You see, if he arrives long after you sent that message you cannot ask him the question "What took you so long? I thought you are already on the way." (Translation: O e akala ko ba on the way ka na e ba't ngayon ka lang dumating. Siguro dumaan ka pa sa ibang babae mo no? Siguro pumunta ka muna sa mga barkada mo no.") You can't do this with this kind of reply because he'll just tell you "I didn't say I was near already. "
3. SAFE reply
"I was on the bus. I had to keep my phone in my pocket to be safe." (Variations: I was on the jeepney. I was on the tricycle. I was on the MRT/LRT. I was waiting for the bus. I waiting for a jeepney.) This is a reply when you ask him why he didn't reply to your previous message/messages. Guys usually give this answer because if you nag him about it he has a ready reply. "I wanted to text you but you know how it is when you commute. There are a lot of snatchers out there. Do you want me to lose my phone? The more that I will not be able to text you if that happens." (Translations: nakaktakot mag text sa jeep. Alam mo naman maraming magnanakaw ngayon. [Lalo pa malapit na ang pasko - the Christmas season version.]. Gusto mo bang mawala ang phone ko? Paano pa kita ma-tetext kung wala na akong phone? [Thought bubble you can't read: "pwera na lang kung bibilhan mo ko ng bagong iphone ngayong pasko])
4. MR. CONGENIALITY reply
"I'm with my friends". This is a reply he gives after you've sent the message "Why aren't you replying?" several times. You might feel bad that he is prioritizing his friends over you but that's how it is with men. When a guy bonds with his friends, he really give his full attention to whatever they are doing. If this happens just once in a while then stop nagging. At least he is being honest with you. You can get mad if he is with his friends more often than he is with you.
5. Un-LOADED reply
"I ran out of load." This is a common reply to the questions "Why are you not texting me?". It is a lame excuse, I think, but many guys use it. If you know the guy has money and he still gives this kind of excuse, slap him on the face. Okay, that's bad. Just nag. That's more painful than a slap on both cheeks. I mean if he have money, getting load shouldn't be a problem. There are a lot of stores selling electronic load. And there are a lot of convenience stores where you can buy call cards. I think this excuse is only acceptable if your guy is just a boy who depends on his parents for his load budget. If that is the case, please be understanding. (Translation: send him load. lol)
6. GUILTY as CHARGED reply
"Low bat." "Empty bat" "I wasn't able to charge". This is also as common a reply as that of number 5. What does this tell you? Your guy is irresponsible. We should all keep our phones with enough battery charge. Be forward looking. Charge your phone if you know you'll be out long. If your guy is like this, think how irresponsible he could/would be with his other concerns.
7. ANTENNA reply
"There's no signal". Your guy thinks that he still lives during the time when cellphones need to have a retractable antenna to get a signal. (Translation: Lagyan mo ng tinidor yung antenna ng radyo para marinig mo si DJ Triggerman. - Did I translate it well? lol) Though there are still times when you can experience losing signal, they seldom last long. Just move a few steps away from where you are and voila, you have a signal.
8. SPELL STOP reply
"OK", "CGE", "=)". When your guys texts you these after exchanging texts message with you for a while, that means he wants the conversation to get. That means stop.
(Translation:
Teacher: Juan, spell STOP
Juan: STOP, O-K, STOP.
Teacher: Good! Juana, spell STOP.
Juana: Stop, C-G-E, STOP.)
Get the drift. Stop texting. If you insist, he might give in but just give you one-word answers and this might irritate you more. So remember, OK, CGE and =) reads STOP.
(Variations: "G'night" and "Luv u")
9. MISSENT reply
"I'll see you later, baby!" is a missent message if baby is not a term of endearment he uses. He is intending to send it to somebody else but he mistakenly sent it to you. (Translation: I am cheating on you and I hope you won't find out about it.) I know you'll get really, really mad. Who wouldn't be? But at least be happy because you're the one on his mind even while texting the other one.
10. NOT MISSENT MISSENT reply
Did that confuse you? Let's make it clear then. Read this message. This is a reply to whatever text you have sent. "Bro, I felt sad this morning. I thought it was going to make her happy but I think she didn't even appreciate it." Who is the message for? Is it really for 'bro'? The answer is a big NO! It is for YOU. He intended you to know what he was feeling - in this case he probably wants to tell you that he felt bad that you did not appreciate his effort to make you happy on your 11th monthssary celebration. He does not have the guts to tell you straight so he made it appear like a missent message. How do you distinguish it from a real missent message? A not missent missent reply is detailed. Reading would tell you right away that he is talking about you. It is written such that you would know what he means. A real missent reply usually doesn't tell you anything concrete yet it tells you a lot. Or at least you think it tells you a lot. It actually makes you speculate.
1. SKY PATROL reply
The SKY PATROL reply is sent to you when you send the text message "I'm here already. Where are you?" (Translation: D2 na me, wer na u?) The reply is like a report from the sky patroler of TV Patrol. "Traffic in EDSA is heavy. It's a bumper-to-bumper situation. There seems to have been an accident near the flyover. That's where the bottle neck is. (Translation: Masikip ang daloy ng trapiko sa kahabaan ng EDSA. Bumperrrr to bumperrr dito. Mukhang may nangyaring kalunos-lunos na banggaan sa may lugar papaakyat ng flyoverrrr. Doon nagkakabuhol-buhol.)
The traffic excuse is an overly used excuse. It is a convenient answer for guys. For them it is a good excuse because (a) it is always heavy traffic in Metro Manila so chances are you'll believe him and (b) girls won't spend/waste time to verify if there is really heavy traffic where he says there is -- or would you?
2. ON the WAY reply
This is still in response to the same question in number 1. "I'm on the way already." (Translation: Papunta na. A variation would be "nakasakay na.")
Do you think this gives a clear answer? NO? No, it does not. It could mean a lot like (a) I just left the house, (b) I just got on the bus, (c) I'm near, (d) I'm halfway there, (e) I'm just about to leave the house, etc.
Confusing reply, right? That is actually what guys want to achieve. They do not want to tell you something that you can later on question. You see, if he arrives long after you sent that message you cannot ask him the question "What took you so long? I thought you are already on the way." (Translation: O e akala ko ba on the way ka na e ba't ngayon ka lang dumating. Siguro dumaan ka pa sa ibang babae mo no? Siguro pumunta ka muna sa mga barkada mo no.") You can't do this with this kind of reply because he'll just tell you "I didn't say I was near already. "
3. SAFE reply
"I was on the bus. I had to keep my phone in my pocket to be safe." (Variations: I was on the jeepney. I was on the tricycle. I was on the MRT/LRT. I was waiting for the bus. I waiting for a jeepney.) This is a reply when you ask him why he didn't reply to your previous message/messages. Guys usually give this answer because if you nag him about it he has a ready reply. "I wanted to text you but you know how it is when you commute. There are a lot of snatchers out there. Do you want me to lose my phone? The more that I will not be able to text you if that happens." (Translations: nakaktakot mag text sa jeep. Alam mo naman maraming magnanakaw ngayon. [Lalo pa malapit na ang pasko - the Christmas season version.]. Gusto mo bang mawala ang phone ko? Paano pa kita ma-tetext kung wala na akong phone? [Thought bubble you can't read: "pwera na lang kung bibilhan mo ko ng bagong iphone ngayong pasko])
4. MR. CONGENIALITY reply
"I'm with my friends". This is a reply he gives after you've sent the message "Why aren't you replying?" several times. You might feel bad that he is prioritizing his friends over you but that's how it is with men. When a guy bonds with his friends, he really give his full attention to whatever they are doing. If this happens just once in a while then stop nagging. At least he is being honest with you. You can get mad if he is with his friends more often than he is with you.
5. Un-LOADED reply
"I ran out of load." This is a common reply to the questions "Why are you not texting me?". It is a lame excuse, I think, but many guys use it. If you know the guy has money and he still gives this kind of excuse, slap him on the face. Okay, that's bad. Just nag. That's more painful than a slap on both cheeks. I mean if he have money, getting load shouldn't be a problem. There are a lot of stores selling electronic load. And there are a lot of convenience stores where you can buy call cards. I think this excuse is only acceptable if your guy is just a boy who depends on his parents for his load budget. If that is the case, please be understanding. (Translation: send him load. lol)
6. GUILTY as CHARGED reply
"Low bat." "Empty bat" "I wasn't able to charge". This is also as common a reply as that of number 5. What does this tell you? Your guy is irresponsible. We should all keep our phones with enough battery charge. Be forward looking. Charge your phone if you know you'll be out long. If your guy is like this, think how irresponsible he could/would be with his other concerns.
7. ANTENNA reply
"There's no signal". Your guy thinks that he still lives during the time when cellphones need to have a retractable antenna to get a signal. (Translation: Lagyan mo ng tinidor yung antenna ng radyo para marinig mo si DJ Triggerman. - Did I translate it well? lol) Though there are still times when you can experience losing signal, they seldom last long. Just move a few steps away from where you are and voila, you have a signal.
8. SPELL STOP reply
"OK", "CGE", "=)". When your guys texts you these after exchanging texts message with you for a while, that means he wants the conversation to get. That means stop.
(Translation:
Teacher: Juan, spell STOP
Juan: STOP, O-K, STOP.
Teacher: Good! Juana, spell STOP.
Juana: Stop, C-G-E, STOP.)
Get the drift. Stop texting. If you insist, he might give in but just give you one-word answers and this might irritate you more. So remember, OK, CGE and =) reads STOP.
(Variations: "G'night" and "Luv u")
9. MISSENT reply
"I'll see you later, baby!" is a missent message if baby is not a term of endearment he uses. He is intending to send it to somebody else but he mistakenly sent it to you. (Translation: I am cheating on you and I hope you won't find out about it.) I know you'll get really, really mad. Who wouldn't be? But at least be happy because you're the one on his mind even while texting the other one.
10. NOT MISSENT MISSENT reply
Did that confuse you? Let's make it clear then. Read this message. This is a reply to whatever text you have sent. "Bro, I felt sad this morning. I thought it was going to make her happy but I think she didn't even appreciate it." Who is the message for? Is it really for 'bro'? The answer is a big NO! It is for YOU. He intended you to know what he was feeling - in this case he probably wants to tell you that he felt bad that you did not appreciate his effort to make you happy on your 11th monthssary celebration. He does not have the guts to tell you straight so he made it appear like a missent message. How do you distinguish it from a real missent message? A not missent missent reply is detailed. Reading would tell you right away that he is talking about you. It is written such that you would know what he means. A real missent reply usually doesn't tell you anything concrete yet it tells you a lot. Or at least you think it tells you a lot. It actually makes you speculate.
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
He Said (my thoughts for the day), She Said (Quintessential Highlights)
Hi friends! My friend read my Pa-Hopeful post and she liked it. I asked her to write her own version of it -- with girls as pa-hopefuls. Then I had this idea that we write about the same topics with my posts about men and her posts about women. Something like "he said, she said". Wait for her version of pa-hopeful. Read Quintessential Highlights.
Thursday, November 10, 2011
The Different Types of Pa-Hopefuls
Pa-hopeful
n.
There are different types of people who are pa-hopeful. To make these types easier to understand, let us use some characters. Let us use Gregory as the pa-hopeful and Joana as his victim.
1. The CONFUSED Pa-hopeful
Gregory knows that Joana likes him. He does things that make Joana think that he also likes her. But Gregory is actually not sure if he really likes her. He is confused about his feelings for her. He is not sure if he wants her as a partner or just as a friend. He makes Joana think that he somehow likes her so that if and when he discovers that he does like her, he will not have a hard time courting her.
2. The TORPE Pa-hopeful
Gregory knows that Joana likes him. He also knows that he likes her. He keeps dropping hints but he is not man enough to actually make a move. He is waiting for her to provide the opening. Worse, there are torpe pa-hopefuls who are actually waiting for Joanas to make the move.
3. The BRAGGART Pa-hopeful
Gregory knows Joana likes him. He doesn't like her but he doesn't make any efforts for her to stop liking him. This is simply because he likes the idea that someone likes him and he likes people to know about this.
4. The Closet GAY Pa-hopeful (or Pa-minta Pa-hopeful)
Gregory is gay and a closet one at that. He knows that Joana likes her but he doesn't like her at all for obvious reasons. He doesn't mind tthis though because he uses this to hide his true identity. If you think this is unfair for Joana then think about this. Gregory might actually stop from being pa-hopeful and actually court Joana and make her his girlfriend to strengthen his manly status.
5. The No-balls Pa-hopeful
This title sounds very much like the torpe pa-hopeful but they are definitely different. Mr. Gregory No-balls is like Mr. Gregory Torpe in the sense that they both know that they like Joana. But Mr. No-balls knows how to court a girl like Joana. So what's keeping him from courting her? Why does he remain pa-hopeful? The plot is like the plot in many romance movies. Gregory No-balls is the campus heartthrob. Joana is the geeky ugly duckling. Naturally, Gregory doesn't want to have anything to do with her because he doesn't want to ruin his image and he doesn't want to be laughed at. He probably makes her hopeful as part of a bet with his friends although deep in his heart he feels guilty. This could end in 4 ways. (1) He will forget his feelings for Joana to protect his image. (2) He will pursue Joana and drop his friends. It will be like an 'against all odds' love affair. (3) The ugly duckling will turn into a swan and they will be happy together. He will be able to keep his image and his friends as well. (4) The swan will drop him like a hot potato. He will be the biggest joke ever.
6. The USER Pa-hopeful
Gregory knows Joana likes him. He doesn't like her but he likes receiving gifts (and money?) from her. He thinks of her as an ATM machine. She is his sugar mommy. He is the male version of the bilmoko girl.
7. The LOSER Pa-hopeful
Gregory thinks Joana likes him. He does things to make her like him more. Then he brags about it. What he doesn't know is that she actually does not like him. She is also being pa-hopeful. She is playing with him. He has no idea that people are laughing about him.
Now, don't think that only these Gregory-s are the pa-hopefuls and the Joanas are the victims. The boat could actually be turned. Joanas can be pa-hopefuls too. But how they will be called will be different though. I mean you cant have a Ms. Joana No-balls, right?
n.
- A person who makes people hope that they can give them something good.
- A person who gives false hopes.
There are different types of people who are pa-hopeful. To make these types easier to understand, let us use some characters. Let us use Gregory as the pa-hopeful and Joana as his victim.
1. The CONFUSED Pa-hopeful
Gregory knows that Joana likes him. He does things that make Joana think that he also likes her. But Gregory is actually not sure if he really likes her. He is confused about his feelings for her. He is not sure if he wants her as a partner or just as a friend. He makes Joana think that he somehow likes her so that if and when he discovers that he does like her, he will not have a hard time courting her.
2. The TORPE Pa-hopeful
Gregory knows that Joana likes him. He also knows that he likes her. He keeps dropping hints but he is not man enough to actually make a move. He is waiting for her to provide the opening. Worse, there are torpe pa-hopefuls who are actually waiting for Joanas to make the move.
3. The BRAGGART Pa-hopeful
Gregory knows Joana likes him. He doesn't like her but he doesn't make any efforts for her to stop liking him. This is simply because he likes the idea that someone likes him and he likes people to know about this.
4. The Closet GAY Pa-hopeful (or Pa-minta Pa-hopeful)
Gregory is gay and a closet one at that. He knows that Joana likes her but he doesn't like her at all for obvious reasons. He doesn't mind tthis though because he uses this to hide his true identity. If you think this is unfair for Joana then think about this. Gregory might actually stop from being pa-hopeful and actually court Joana and make her his girlfriend to strengthen his manly status.
5. The No-balls Pa-hopeful
This title sounds very much like the torpe pa-hopeful but they are definitely different. Mr. Gregory No-balls is like Mr. Gregory Torpe in the sense that they both know that they like Joana. But Mr. No-balls knows how to court a girl like Joana. So what's keeping him from courting her? Why does he remain pa-hopeful? The plot is like the plot in many romance movies. Gregory No-balls is the campus heartthrob. Joana is the geeky ugly duckling. Naturally, Gregory doesn't want to have anything to do with her because he doesn't want to ruin his image and he doesn't want to be laughed at. He probably makes her hopeful as part of a bet with his friends although deep in his heart he feels guilty. This could end in 4 ways. (1) He will forget his feelings for Joana to protect his image. (2) He will pursue Joana and drop his friends. It will be like an 'against all odds' love affair. (3) The ugly duckling will turn into a swan and they will be happy together. He will be able to keep his image and his friends as well. (4) The swan will drop him like a hot potato. He will be the biggest joke ever.
6. The USER Pa-hopeful
Gregory knows Joana likes him. He doesn't like her but he likes receiving gifts (and money?) from her. He thinks of her as an ATM machine. She is his sugar mommy. He is the male version of the bilmoko girl.
7. The LOSER Pa-hopeful
Gregory thinks Joana likes him. He does things to make her like him more. Then he brags about it. What he doesn't know is that she actually does not like him. She is also being pa-hopeful. She is playing with him. He has no idea that people are laughing about him.
Now, don't think that only these Gregory-s are the pa-hopefuls and the Joanas are the victims. The boat could actually be turned. Joanas can be pa-hopefuls too. But how they will be called will be different though. I mean you cant have a Ms. Joana No-balls, right?
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
DLTB - BLTB - Welcome Back
DLTB, former BLTB is back. People who grew up in Quezon, Batangas and Laguna in the 80's surely remembers what BLTB means. BLTB stands for Batangas, Laguna, Tayabas Bus Co. Quezon was originally called Tayabas. It went out of business some years back. But I think sometime this year it came back again with a new name. It is now called DLTB. I think it is under new management.
In my last few trips to Quezon I rode DLTB. The first time I rode DLTB was unintentional. It's just that the Jac Liner that goes to SM Lucena just left and the next one would take about an hour (the next bus goes only to the Grand Central Terminal). I was rushing so I went to the next bus station and found out that the bus would be leaving in 10 minutes.
The trip was actually good. There still aren't a lot of people riding DLTB so I had no seatmate. I was able to put my bag beside me. And since the buses are relatively new, they do not smell bad. There was a sign that says wi-fi on board. Hmmmm.... No originality. Jac Liner was the first one to offer that. But who am I to complain. lol I asked the driver for the password. He said there is none. I also asked him if all buses have wi-fi. He said not yet. They are still waiting for additional routers. That's fine. Jac Liner was like that too in the beginning.
Since then I have been taking DLTB for my trips. It was particularly helpful after the All Saints Day break. I knew there would be a lot of passengers so I decided to go to the DLTB station instead of the other terminals.The bus left with me as their only passenger. But two bus stops after, the bus was already full.
Anyway, what i like about the bus is that it is not always full, I can put my bag on the seat right beside me, the seats are still good and comfortable, once in a while there is wi-fi, it doesn;t smell bad, they do not stay long at the bus terminal and to top it all, the drivers seem to be careful.
In my last few trips to Quezon I rode DLTB. The first time I rode DLTB was unintentional. It's just that the Jac Liner that goes to SM Lucena just left and the next one would take about an hour (the next bus goes only to the Grand Central Terminal). I was rushing so I went to the next bus station and found out that the bus would be leaving in 10 minutes.
The trip was actually good. There still aren't a lot of people riding DLTB so I had no seatmate. I was able to put my bag beside me. And since the buses are relatively new, they do not smell bad. There was a sign that says wi-fi on board. Hmmmm.... No originality. Jac Liner was the first one to offer that. But who am I to complain. lol I asked the driver for the password. He said there is none. I also asked him if all buses have wi-fi. He said not yet. They are still waiting for additional routers. That's fine. Jac Liner was like that too in the beginning.
Since then I have been taking DLTB for my trips. It was particularly helpful after the All Saints Day break. I knew there would be a lot of passengers so I decided to go to the DLTB station instead of the other terminals.The bus left with me as their only passenger. But two bus stops after, the bus was already full.
Anyway, what i like about the bus is that it is not always full, I can put my bag on the seat right beside me, the seats are still good and comfortable, once in a while there is wi-fi, it doesn;t smell bad, they do not stay long at the bus terminal and to top it all, the drivers seem to be careful.
Thursday, November 3, 2011
Flower Arrangements - All Saints Day 2011
I had a blast arranging flowers last Oct. 31. My cousin takes flower arrangement orders from people in our town for the All Saints Day Celebration. She then goes to Dangwa in Manila to buy the flowers and takes them back to out town in Quezon. I've been helping her for the last 3 or 4 years.
This year I went with her to Dangwa. I arrived there ahead of her so I had the chance to look at how the people there arrange flowers. I've learned a good number of styles which I used for our designs. It would have been easier if we have all the materials (flowers, twigs, leaves, etc) within our reach. Unfortunately, we could only buy the things that we think are necessary because it would be costly to buy 'everything' we find useful. This means there were instances when we had to make do with what we have. It's good that there are other useful things in the 'backyard' which we could use. All we needed was creativity and imagination. We were able to come out with what I could say are good flower arrangements.
I had the most fun doing the wild flower arrangement. I used a woven basket as the container. Then I used flowers that I call wild since they are not the usual roses and gerberas and orchids. We had these flowers but just to make the flower arrangement a little 'familiar' to the customers. I do not know the names of the wild flowers except for the 'mickey mouse'. I also used a lot of leaves and twigs and sticks.
This year we were able to make almost 30 flower arrangements. It was tiring but at the same time fulfilling.
This year I went with her to Dangwa. I arrived there ahead of her so I had the chance to look at how the people there arrange flowers. I've learned a good number of styles which I used for our designs. It would have been easier if we have all the materials (flowers, twigs, leaves, etc) within our reach. Unfortunately, we could only buy the things that we think are necessary because it would be costly to buy 'everything' we find useful. This means there were instances when we had to make do with what we have. It's good that there are other useful things in the 'backyard' which we could use. All we needed was creativity and imagination. We were able to come out with what I could say are good flower arrangements.
I had the most fun doing the wild flower arrangement. I used a woven basket as the container. Then I used flowers that I call wild since they are not the usual roses and gerberas and orchids. We had these flowers but just to make the flower arrangement a little 'familiar' to the customers. I do not know the names of the wild flowers except for the 'mickey mouse'. I also used a lot of leaves and twigs and sticks.
This year we were able to make almost 30 flower arrangements. It was tiring but at the same time fulfilling.
Thursday, September 29, 2011
My Thoughts for Today
I used the message from God application on facebook today. God's message is
... that every day you are choosing either to be grateful or to be disappointed. You can worry to no end about what you don't have. Or you can marvel at God's breathtaking gifts: the morning dew, the sun, the clouds, the trees, the flowers, the birds. Could you create any of these? These miracles of life are always around you, ready to be celebrated, ready to be welcomed into your life.
I have been taught to appreciate all God's gifts including those mentioned in this message. I know they are God's wonderful creations. I know God created them for all of us out of His love. There is no question about that. He Loves us that's why He blesses us with all these things.
I woke up this day hopeful. I prayed yesterday for something I really need. it is something that I know I must have right now because otherwise I'd be doomed. Yes! That's not an exaggeration. I prayed with much faith that He would be there as promised. Then I learned my prayer was not granted. Poof! Then I have to be grateful as the message told me. My mind tells me that I should -- that that is the right thing to do. But my heart just say 'how?'
I would like to appreciate the morning dew. But can the morning dew heal my dad's colds right now? I would like to appreciate the sun. But can the sum warm my family's hungry stomach? I would like to appreciate the clouds. But can the clouds cover my bills? I would like to appreciate the trees. But can the trees pay for my rent?
To some my concerns may seem minor -- too little to even think of not appreciating God's blessings. You just don't know the whole story. If you did, you would understand. You might even help in finding the answer to the question 'can the flowers soothe away the anxiety I feel inside?' You might help ask 'can the birds carry my disappointments away?'
No! I am not questioning God. At least that's what my mind tells me. But I am questioning myself why these things are happening to me. I know there are reasons behind these. There are reasons why do not deserve the blessings others receive. My question is when will this disappointment, this anxiety, this sadness, this despair end. Will this end before I wake up again to another set of blessings -- the morning dew, the sun, the clouds? Will I have to wait till the trees fall, the flowers wither and the birds die? Or will I wait for the time when I will no longer feel, see, hear, smell and taste all these creations? Will these end with a bang!
... that every day you are choosing either to be grateful or to be disappointed. You can worry to no end about what you don't have. Or you can marvel at God's breathtaking gifts: the morning dew, the sun, the clouds, the trees, the flowers, the birds. Could you create any of these? These miracles of life are always around you, ready to be celebrated, ready to be welcomed into your life.
I have been taught to appreciate all God's gifts including those mentioned in this message. I know they are God's wonderful creations. I know God created them for all of us out of His love. There is no question about that. He Loves us that's why He blesses us with all these things.
I woke up this day hopeful. I prayed yesterday for something I really need. it is something that I know I must have right now because otherwise I'd be doomed. Yes! That's not an exaggeration. I prayed with much faith that He would be there as promised. Then I learned my prayer was not granted. Poof! Then I have to be grateful as the message told me. My mind tells me that I should -- that that is the right thing to do. But my heart just say 'how?'
I would like to appreciate the morning dew. But can the morning dew heal my dad's colds right now? I would like to appreciate the sun. But can the sum warm my family's hungry stomach? I would like to appreciate the clouds. But can the clouds cover my bills? I would like to appreciate the trees. But can the trees pay for my rent?
To some my concerns may seem minor -- too little to even think of not appreciating God's blessings. You just don't know the whole story. If you did, you would understand. You might even help in finding the answer to the question 'can the flowers soothe away the anxiety I feel inside?' You might help ask 'can the birds carry my disappointments away?'
No! I am not questioning God. At least that's what my mind tells me. But I am questioning myself why these things are happening to me. I know there are reasons behind these. There are reasons why do not deserve the blessings others receive. My question is when will this disappointment, this anxiety, this sadness, this despair end. Will this end before I wake up again to another set of blessings -- the morning dew, the sun, the clouds? Will I have to wait till the trees fall, the flowers wither and the birds die? Or will I wait for the time when I will no longer feel, see, hear, smell and taste all these creations? Will these end with a bang!
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Frustrated! Disappointed!
I'm not in a good mood today. Not really foul mood but not in anyway near good either. I've been feeling this way in the last few days actually. Good thing is that not a lot of the people I encounter everyday see it.
Recently I've been getting frustrated and disappointed easily. My patience and tolerance to things are running low. I'm finding it hard to accept that some people, especially those whom you have high regard for, can disappoint you. It's easier to accept negative actions of people whom you do not believe in in the first place than actions of people whom you thought you can depend on.
The problem is that I am also to blame in many of these appointing situations. You see I have let these people believe that I can easily accept things and that I don't get disappointed easily. I have made them believe that I am an understanding person. I may have given the idea that they can always get away with anything they want. I might have given them the notion that I do not get affected by their foul actions. But I do get pissed sometimes. You don't see a halo on my head, do you?
This will pass. I hope. I hope it does before I do something drastic that I will regret later.
Monday, September 12, 2011
Multitasking.....
Multitasking. Webopedia defines multitasking as the ability to execute more than one task at the same time.
Singing and dancing at the same time is multitasking.
Bathing and singing at the same time is multitasking.
Watching the television while eating and texting is also multitasking.
We are always used to multitasking. We do it every time, actually. The problem is that sometimes, even if we are able to do several tasks at the same time, we are not able to do them with the same intensity. Some comes out with better results than the other tasks.
It is difficult to multitask if one of the tasks that you have to do is to think of solutions to your problems. It is difficult to concentrate on some things if you are burdened with so many other concerns. This leads to poor results in the other tasks. Now, if we could only compartmentalize areas of our life then things would probably become easier. But can we really do that? As I am writing this, I am also thinking of my next moves to become rich. Hard, right? Haha. Kidding aside, it is really difficult to do your responsibilities when you are burdened with lots of concerns.
It's hard to think of a strategy to filter tasks so you can concentrate on the important things in life.It's not as easy as saying I'm gonna do this now so brain, don't think of your problems. If I could only that I'd be the happiest. But I can't. So what's the resolution now? Nothing! I don't know. I didn't think about that because now I am already imagining the food I'll take for lunch.
Friday, September 9, 2011
Conspiracy Theory - Don't Waste Your Time Reading This
Random thoughts! Don't take this seriously!
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If it didn't happen today, it won't happen tomorrow. Yeah! I know! There is no logic in what I said! Unfortunately, however hard I try not to believe that statement, that's how I really feel right now. So much for promises! I feel they're never gonna happen. But do I feel bad about that? No! I also did not fulfill my promises anyway. Serves me right, right? It's all coming back to me now. But do I really deserve that? Do I? Do I?
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Even the littlest things seem impossible. The big things are gone. No! They were never there. Now, you mean to tell even the small ones were never there? What's left for the taking? Nothing? Nothing! Yeah! Oh yeah! I know! I blew my chances! So is it true that we only get to have a fix number of chances? It looks like there aren't going to be additions. Poor me. I took everything already and I successfully managed to fail them all! Haha! No! It's not funny! But what can I do? Nothing!
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There is a conspiracy! I know that now. Or maybe not! Everybody's just doing the same without really meaning to! Opposing forces are doing the same things. Shouldn't that be something I should be happy about? Imagine, opposing forces are not going in one direction. Haha! Again, there's nothing funny about that. Will you laugh if you see opposing teams both rushing to get you down? Nah! I don't think you will! Or are you with them too? Oh, poor me!
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So what am I gonna do? Nothing! Just waste everything. They are wasted already anyway. Boom! Wham! Blast! Crash!
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But I have to do it quietly though! They shouldn't know! They'll spoil the fun. Haha! Whack! Poof! Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
Note: Hey! You mean somebody also wants to sabotage this post? Common! Give me a break!
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Pretending you are Fine
It is hard waking up in the morning with loads on your chest. It is also hard to calm yourself down tat night o take that much needed sleep when your mind is filled with chaotic thoughts. But what's more difficult is carrying all those baggage and still pretending that everything is okay. It's hard to smile at others when you see them pass by. It's hard to laugh with your friends when somebody cracks jokes. It's hard to share in the happiness others are experiencing when you can no longer define what happiness is.
Some might say you need not pretend that everything's fine. Some might say you just need to open up to some friends to at least lighten the load. I say not. There are things that are better kept to yourself. I mean we are not expected to disclose everything even to our closest friend. Sharing to others will not always lighten the load. Doing it might even add more worries. What if your friend fails to understand your concern? What if he makes judgments on you? What if your friend fails to support you? Aren't you going to be disappointed? All those things could just be added load to carry.
So what happens next? Nothing! You just have to continue pretending each day. Hopefully you'll really be able to convince others that you are fine. And hopefully, you will be able to convince YOURSELF that YOU are fine.
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Enjoying the Ride?
Do you enjoy going to theme parks to ride the different 'extreme' rides like roller coasters? I don't. I like theme parks but I'd prefer to just walk around and see all those beautiful people in costumes, watch production numbers and eat. For me, those are more exciting than actually holding your breath and shouting while being dropped from a height even a cat with nine lives will be afraid of. Generally, I like calm and peaceful adventures.
Even in life I also do not like rough situations. I like to live my life rather peacefully. Yes, I do have my own share of dangerous adventures. I think those are needed to make life a little more colorful. But I hate rough waters. I get scared of bumps on the road. I do not like situations that I know are going to give me stress.
Unfortunately, there are always bumps on every road. Those are thing I believe we cannot really run away from. As I experience these bumps, I can only pray that I will not be too dizzy to really think clearly. I hope I can just sit back and relax and put my trust in the Driver of my life. It's going to be hard to completely trust, I know that. Because I know myself. I know I can be a stubborn and an 'ever complaining' passenger. But with the assurances from Manong Driver that he'll take good care of me, then I'll try to just relax and enjoy the view. I may not enjoy the whole ride but I'll try to appreciate all the wonders that I see along the way. And while I'm at it, maybe I'll also just enjoy the company of the people I travel with.
Wanna ride with me? Or will I just see you at the next stop?
Even in life I also do not like rough situations. I like to live my life rather peacefully. Yes, I do have my own share of dangerous adventures. I think those are needed to make life a little more colorful. But I hate rough waters. I get scared of bumps on the road. I do not like situations that I know are going to give me stress.
Unfortunately, there are always bumps on every road. Those are thing I believe we cannot really run away from. As I experience these bumps, I can only pray that I will not be too dizzy to really think clearly. I hope I can just sit back and relax and put my trust in the Driver of my life. It's going to be hard to completely trust, I know that. Because I know myself. I know I can be a stubborn and an 'ever complaining' passenger. But with the assurances from Manong Driver that he'll take good care of me, then I'll try to just relax and enjoy the view. I may not enjoy the whole ride but I'll try to appreciate all the wonders that I see along the way. And while I'm at it, maybe I'll also just enjoy the company of the people I travel with.
Wanna ride with me? Or will I just see you at the next stop?
Monday, September 5, 2011
My Special Room for You
As soon as I entered this room I started to sneeze. This room is now so dusty because it has not been occupied since time immemorial. Dust fills the air even at my slightest movements. I cannot even see the original color of the desk at the far end.
I have long invited you to occupy this room. In fact, I have reserved this only for and nobody else. This is the best room in my house. I chose the next best room just so you would have, as they say, 'the best seat in the house'. Sadly, you have time and again refused my invitation. Every time I would invite you would have all sorts of excuses. "Maybe next time!" "Let's see!" "Okay but I have to do this first!" The last one you said was "I am now in a room that I really like. Maybe when I get bored there then I'll take your offer!" You know, the closest you ever got to staying in this room was when we sat in the couch one evening. I don't know if you still remember that night but I do. Perfectly. You came to me after you came from the room you were occupying then. You said you are bored there and you don't want to go back. You said that room brings back sad memories. I told you to stay in this room for as long as you like. You just said thank you. You were so depressed that you immediately fell asleep after saying thanks. You didn't even had the energy to lie in bed. You know you slept on my shoulders. The next day you said you need to leave to sort things out. I waited for you. But you never came.
This room still remains empty, still hoping you'll stay, still hoping you'll at least try. For how long it'll wait, I don't know. The only thing I know is that I've reserved it for you that if and when the time comes that somebody else will occupy this, it's still you whom I imagine as the one inside.
Friday, September 2, 2011
Am I Where I Should Be?
We will all reach a certain point in our lives where we will ask if we are in the right place or not. We will, at that point, begin to wonder if what we are doing are the the things we should be doing and the people we are with the right people we should be with. This point is not necessarily a point where we are depressed or the time when we are at a loss as many would probably think. You see, many people assume that when we begin to ask such questions we are in a state of confusion or we are in a dilemma. Even when we are happy or at the very least contented, we can still wonder if we are doing the right thing.s As to why this happen, I really do not know but I have some things in mind that may answer the question. Some of them I have felt while the others are just fruits of my imagination.
One possible reason is the loss of excitement in the things that we do. When you are sad, naturally there is no excitement. When you are contented there could also be no excitement because everything could be just, ah, plain or flat? I think there could also be the absence of excitement even when you are happy. It is possible that the excitement is just brought about by the same things so what could be exciting about that?, right
Another reason is seeing how others are doing. Sometimes we tend to compare what we have or what we have achieved with that of others. It is easy to fall into this trap because it is but natural for people to feel envious of others once in a while. I mean you may be contented with your car but when you see a yellow sports car you probably cannot help yourself but say wow! Yeah, you may call that just admiration but I know somewhere in your mind, you are thinking it would be good if you could have one too. But you don't need to admit that, really!
Then there are the questions that people around you throw at you. What is that again? I'm sure you have attended family reunions. During family reunions, it is not uncommon to hear questions like "when are you going to get married?", "don't you have children yet?" or "do you have your own house now?". Or when you meet up with your college buddies after not seeing them for a long time you will possibly hear questions like "when are you going to introduce us to your partner?" or "where did you park your car?". Most probably those questions were asked with no maliscious intent but they could surely make you examine your life.
Another one would be remembering an old dream that you thought you have already outgrown. Say you grew up wanting to be a doctor (to help cure the sick as many kids would say). Then in high school you realized that biology and chemistry are just too hard for you so you decided to go into journalism or philosophy instead. Now you are wondering what your life would have been if you did not change your plans.
What ever your reason is for examining your life now, it is important to really think hard and have some serious discernment because it is not yet too late to make some changes. You see you can take detours at 20, 30, 40, 50 or even 60.
Monday, August 29, 2011
Mind Master on GMA 7
I watched MIND MASTER last night. It's the mind reading, mind controlling, mind manipulation, mind whatever show on GMA 7. There were a lot of KAPUSO stars who joined the show. The mind master Mr. Nomer Lasal (i think that's his name) did some freaky "fortune telling" in creative ways. Like he asked a guest to thik of a question then he asked him to sign his name on a piece of paper. Then he folded this inside a kerchief (together with a ballpen). When he opened the kerchief after e few seconds, an answer was already written. He did all those crazy things. It blew my mind away. Grabe! He really was a mind master.
Monday, August 22, 2011
Roller Coaster
Roller coaster...
The carnival ride i hate the most....
The theme park attraction i am most afraid of...
Unfortunately, the roller coaster is not only found in a carnival or a theme park...
It is present in almost every aspect of our lives...
Finances for example - sometime you have, sometimes you don't...
Friends - sometimes they're there, sometime they're not (physically, that is)...
Love life - sometimes you're happy, sometimes you're not...
- sometimes you feel loved, sometime you feel not...
- sometimes you feel appreciated, sometimes you feel neglected...
You can never really have everything that you want...
You can never be always on top...
But you cannot do anything but accept that in life, you can never always be in control...
The carnival ride i hate the most....
The theme park attraction i am most afraid of...
Unfortunately, the roller coaster is not only found in a carnival or a theme park...
It is present in almost every aspect of our lives...
Finances for example - sometime you have, sometimes you don't...
Friends - sometimes they're there, sometime they're not (physically, that is)...
Love life - sometimes you're happy, sometimes you're not...
- sometimes you feel loved, sometime you feel not...
- sometimes you feel appreciated, sometimes you feel neglected...
You can never really have everything that you want...
You can never be always on top...
But you cannot do anything but accept that in life, you can never always be in control...
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
The Man Who Can't Be Moved by The Script - Will I be able to call myself that way?
The first time I heard the song "The Man Who Can't Be Moved" by The Script I immediately liked it. I liked it because I like the Way it was sang and I like the melody. However, I didn't understand right away what the song meant. Then a friend of mine sang it in one of our activities. When he was practicing I asked to see the lyrics. That was the first time I understood what it meant. From then on I said I like it very much. I could feel the love in that man's heart. I could feel the unending hope he has that one day he is going to see his love again.
cause if one day you wake up and find that you're missing me
And your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I could be
Thinkin maybe you'll come back here to the place that we'd meet
And you'll see me waiting for you on the corner of the street
So I'm not moving, I'm not moving
Read the chorus a few times. Do you think the guy is hoping that the love of his life will come back one day to embrace him and love him again? I don't think so. I think he was just hoping that there will come a time that the girl will miss him and look for him. He sounded like he was just hoping that she'll come back so he will see her again. Then maybe he'll try to work things out from there. I think they had a falling out somewhere and they didn't get real 'closure'. Maybe he did something that the girl didn't like. He was not given time to explain so he was hoping that he'll have a second chance. I don't know.
Anyway, I was thinking should that thing happen to me will I be able to say "I am a man who can't be moved"? Such love that man has. I am not sure if I am capable of loving someone the same way. Maybe. Maybe not. Who's to say? Just read the lyrics of The Man Who Can't Be Moved and enjoy.
"The Man Who Can't Be Moved"
Going Back to the corner where I first saw you
Gonna camp in my sleeping bag I'm not gonna move
Got some words on cardboard, got your picture in my hand
Saying, "If you see this girl can you tell her where I am?"
Some try to hand me money, they don't understand
I'm not broke I'm just a broken hearted man
I know it makes no sense but what else can I do
How can I move on when I'm still in love with you
'cause if one day you wake up and find that you're missing me
And your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I could be
Thinkin maybe you'll come back here to the place that we'd meet
And you'll see me waiting for you on the corner of the street
So I'm not moving, I'm not moving
Policeman says, "Son you can't stay here"
I said, "There's someone I'm waiting for if it's a day, a month, a year"
Gotta stand my ground even if it rains or snows
If she changes her mind this is the first place she will go
[Chorus:]
'cause If one day you wake up and find that you're missing me
And your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I could be
Thinking maybe you'll come back here to the place that we'd meet
And you'll see me waiting for you on our corner of the street
So I'm not moving, I'm not moving,
I'm not moving, I'm not moving
People talk about the guy that's waiting on a girl
There are no holes in his shoes but a big hole in his world
Maybe I'll get famous as the man who can't be moved
Maybe you wont mean to but you'll see me on the news
And you'll come running to the corner
'cause you'll know it's just for you
I'm the man who can't be moved
[Chorus 2x]
Going back to the corner where I first saw you
Gonna camp in my sleeping bag, I'm not gonna move
***I just copied this lyrics of the The Man Who Can't be Moved of The Script from azlyrics.com
cause if one day you wake up and find that you're missing me
And your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I could be
Thinkin maybe you'll come back here to the place that we'd meet
And you'll see me waiting for you on the corner of the street
So I'm not moving, I'm not moving
Read the chorus a few times. Do you think the guy is hoping that the love of his life will come back one day to embrace him and love him again? I don't think so. I think he was just hoping that there will come a time that the girl will miss him and look for him. He sounded like he was just hoping that she'll come back so he will see her again. Then maybe he'll try to work things out from there. I think they had a falling out somewhere and they didn't get real 'closure'. Maybe he did something that the girl didn't like. He was not given time to explain so he was hoping that he'll have a second chance. I don't know.
Anyway, I was thinking should that thing happen to me will I be able to say "I am a man who can't be moved"? Such love that man has. I am not sure if I am capable of loving someone the same way. Maybe. Maybe not. Who's to say? Just read the lyrics of The Man Who Can't Be Moved and enjoy.
"The Man Who Can't Be Moved"
Going Back to the corner where I first saw you
Gonna camp in my sleeping bag I'm not gonna move
Got some words on cardboard, got your picture in my hand
Saying, "If you see this girl can you tell her where I am?"
Some try to hand me money, they don't understand
I'm not broke I'm just a broken hearted man
I know it makes no sense but what else can I do
How can I move on when I'm still in love with you
'cause if one day you wake up and find that you're missing me
And your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I could be
Thinkin maybe you'll come back here to the place that we'd meet
And you'll see me waiting for you on the corner of the street
So I'm not moving, I'm not moving
Policeman says, "Son you can't stay here"
I said, "There's someone I'm waiting for if it's a day, a month, a year"
Gotta stand my ground even if it rains or snows
If she changes her mind this is the first place she will go
[Chorus:]
'cause If one day you wake up and find that you're missing me
And your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I could be
Thinking maybe you'll come back here to the place that we'd meet
And you'll see me waiting for you on our corner of the street
So I'm not moving, I'm not moving,
I'm not moving, I'm not moving
People talk about the guy that's waiting on a girl
There are no holes in his shoes but a big hole in his world
Maybe I'll get famous as the man who can't be moved
Maybe you wont mean to but you'll see me on the news
And you'll come running to the corner
'cause you'll know it's just for you
I'm the man who can't be moved
[Chorus 2x]
Going back to the corner where I first saw you
Gonna camp in my sleeping bag, I'm not gonna move
***I just copied this lyrics of the The Man Who Can't be Moved of The Script from azlyrics.com
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Cheating in the 2004 and 2007 elections, Sen. Miguel Zubiri and Atty. Koko Pimentel,
The past few weeks, we have been reading about cheating in the 2004 and 2007 elections. Many names have been mentioned. Many people gave their opinions. It even prompted Sen. Miguel Zubiri to drop the title of Senator. He just chose to remain Mr. Zubiri for the time being.
His resignation actually even spawned more talks. Again, many people expressed their own views about it. Some praised him for what he did. Others said his resignation was rather late. Others condemned him for still saying that he did not cheat. The candidate who would probably take the seat he has vacated also aired his side. Atty. Koko Pimentel expressed his disappointment (or was it anger?) regarding Mr. Zubiri's speech. Even his wife voiced out her thoughts about the whole issue.
Friday, July 29, 2011
Former President Gloria Macapagal Arroyo and her Tolerance to Pain
As I write this, former president Gloria Macapagal Arroyo is undergoing surgery on her cervical spine at St. Luke's Medical Center, Taguig. They she has a pinched nerve that is causing her pain. As far as I recall, she already had a pinched nerve problem a few months (or is it weeks) back. I admire this little lady for her strong tolerance to pain. I think having a pinched nerve is very painful. But even so, she continued to work for her district and at the same time answer (through her lawyers but I'm sure in consultation with her) the different charges being presented against her.I did not see her complain.
Now, why am I saying this? Let me first clarify that I am not an ally nor a friend of GMA. I have not even met. Well, I saw her once but we were never introduced. I am writing just to commend her for having such tolerance. You see, as a public official, you need to be strong. You need to be able to control your emotions/reactions against certain things that could sometimes be very painful. A public official, especially the one occupying the highest position in the land must show everyone that they are strong and they are not giving up/buckling down. Some might argue that GMA's strong tolerance to pain/shame gave her that devil may care attitude when she was hounded by controversies. True. Instead of being 'matapang', her attitude may have appeared 'makapal ang mukha'. But you know, for me, I think that that attitude may have also done us some good in the sense that she has shown other people that the country is strong and there is nothing to worry about because even the president is not affected at all. If she showed weakness, investors and tourists might have been put off. I just wish that public officials could show higher tolerance to 'pain' and stop complaining and complaining. It is funny seeing public officials complaining about little things like not being given priority in the airport, getting a smaller office than a rookie politician, etc. And Mr. President, you may criticize GMA all you want (and please make justice be served if she indeed committed all those crimes), but please, also show a little more tolerance to 'pain' like what she is doing. Please do not easily complain especially in issues that are not really of national importance like always being asked about your love life?! People just want to know. But please understand that whatever they would say about whom you are dating (unless you date a married woman or a man for that matter) wont really affect the economy, our moral standing or lead to war. It is a reporter's job to ask just like what your sister Kris (whom I actually like) does in some of the talk shows she's handled.
Anyway, Mrs. Gloria Macapagal Arroyo, may the Lord's healing hand be upon you.
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Give and Take Relationship or Give and Give Relationship
Every time I would ride a cab at night, I would always hear the program of Papa Jack. Yes! That's how popular he is among taxi drivers. I asked some of them why they listen to Papa Jack and most of them said they keep he keeps them awake because of his funny jokes.
For those who do not know, Papa Jack's radio program is what I would call 'love counseling show'. Callers call him to ask for advice about love. Usually, he gives funny answers even if the stories callers share are serious. But there are also times when he becomes serious. Sometimes he even becomes brutally frank with the callers.
Anyway, the other night, I heard him tell the caller that love is a give and give relationship contrary to what many believe that it is a give and take king of thing.
I was taken aback by his comment. Then I began to realize that what he said is correct. if you come to think of it, if you're mindset when you enter a relationship is that is a give and take relationship, most probably you will be hurt. Why? Because you always have that idea in mind that there is something that you will or should receive whether it be in the area of emotions or material things. You see, you tend to expect things from your partner. And when your expectations are not met, problems set in.
If you believe, on the other hand, that it is a give and give relationship, you will not be disappointed. How can one be disappointed if there are no expectations? You just continue to give out of love for the other person. If you get something in return, you'll definitely feel elated. If you do not get anything at all, you probably wouldn't even notice because you are not waiting for anything in the first place. It's like getting something is not an essential thing.
Now, the question is, can this really be done? I don't know. Why don't you try? Or better yet, call Papa Jack.
For those who do not know, Papa Jack's radio program is what I would call 'love counseling show'. Callers call him to ask for advice about love. Usually, he gives funny answers even if the stories callers share are serious. But there are also times when he becomes serious. Sometimes he even becomes brutally frank with the callers.
Anyway, the other night, I heard him tell the caller that love is a give and give relationship contrary to what many believe that it is a give and take king of thing.
I was taken aback by his comment. Then I began to realize that what he said is correct. if you come to think of it, if you're mindset when you enter a relationship is that is a give and take relationship, most probably you will be hurt. Why? Because you always have that idea in mind that there is something that you will or should receive whether it be in the area of emotions or material things. You see, you tend to expect things from your partner. And when your expectations are not met, problems set in.
If you believe, on the other hand, that it is a give and give relationship, you will not be disappointed. How can one be disappointed if there are no expectations? You just continue to give out of love for the other person. If you get something in return, you'll definitely feel elated. If you do not get anything at all, you probably wouldn't even notice because you are not waiting for anything in the first place. It's like getting something is not an essential thing.
Now, the question is, can this really be done? I don't know. Why don't you try? Or better yet, call Papa Jack.
Thursday, July 14, 2011
How Do You Measure Success?
They say life begins at 40. This means my life is about to begin. In a few years I will reach that I age and thinking about it prompted me to evaluate what has happened to 'my life' in the years before it has actually began. What I discovered actually made me a bit sad.
I graduated high school as the class valedictorian. I studied college in UP which they say is the best university in the country. I even graduated with honors. Well, I didn't graduate with the highest honors because my grades only reached the Cum Laude ranking but just the same, it was something to be happy about - even something to be proud of. I got hired in a school even before graduation day. And two years after I was promoted as Principal. Such great achievements, don't you think.
But where am I today, a few years my life begins? I am a school principal waiting everyday for the next payday. I am a principal who takes a cab to school every morning instead of my own car. I am a principal who even rides a jeepney and a pedicab to work every time payday is approaching.
Yes, I may have reached the highest position in my workplace but I am still as broke as I was before I actually started earning my own money.
Some might think that I am in this state because of my own doing. Some might question my lifestyle. Some might question the way I handle my money. Well, I cannot fault them for that. What they are thinking is probably correct. So am I complaining? Not really. I am just at thins point where I am beginning to think if I made the right decisions in life. Did I make the right choices? Maybe yes. Maybe not.
How do you measure success? Is it measured by the position you hold in your company? Is it measured by how much you have in the bank?
I still believe that success is measured by how happy and contended you are with what you have. For the longest time I maintained that I am happy with what I have achieved. But for some reason this self-evaluation has caused a sudden stir in my heart. Am I really happy? Am I really satisfied? As I said in the beginning I am a bit sad. I have suddenly thought of things that I have not achieved or have not accomplished. I do hope that this is just a phase that I have to experience. I like to believe that this too shall pass. I hope that before my life begins I will have a stronger resolve that I am happy with my life.
Again, how do you measure success?
I graduated high school as the class valedictorian. I studied college in UP which they say is the best university in the country. I even graduated with honors. Well, I didn't graduate with the highest honors because my grades only reached the Cum Laude ranking but just the same, it was something to be happy about - even something to be proud of. I got hired in a school even before graduation day. And two years after I was promoted as Principal. Such great achievements, don't you think.
But where am I today, a few years my life begins? I am a school principal waiting everyday for the next payday. I am a principal who takes a cab to school every morning instead of my own car. I am a principal who even rides a jeepney and a pedicab to work every time payday is approaching.
Yes, I may have reached the highest position in my workplace but I am still as broke as I was before I actually started earning my own money.
Some might think that I am in this state because of my own doing. Some might question my lifestyle. Some might question the way I handle my money. Well, I cannot fault them for that. What they are thinking is probably correct. So am I complaining? Not really. I am just at thins point where I am beginning to think if I made the right decisions in life. Did I make the right choices? Maybe yes. Maybe not.
How do you measure success? Is it measured by the position you hold in your company? Is it measured by how much you have in the bank?
I still believe that success is measured by how happy and contended you are with what you have. For the longest time I maintained that I am happy with what I have achieved. But for some reason this self-evaluation has caused a sudden stir in my heart. Am I really happy? Am I really satisfied? As I said in the beginning I am a bit sad. I have suddenly thought of things that I have not achieved or have not accomplished. I do hope that this is just a phase that I have to experience. I like to believe that this too shall pass. I hope that before my life begins I will have a stronger resolve that I am happy with my life.
Again, how do you measure success?
Billboards Up, Billboards Down, Morals Up, Morals Down
First it was the Philippine Rugby Team's (or at least some of its members') underwear billboards that were put down. I think Philippine Azkals members also had similar billboards for Bench Body and they were also rolled down. Now its Anne Curtis' and Angel Locsin's billboards that have been targeted. If I'm not mistaken Anne's billboards on EDSA these days are for SMDC and she's wearing gowns in different colors for them. Angel's billboard on the other hand is for Century Tuna. This is the one where she is with Phil Younghusband who is being linked to her.
Why are they suddenly rolling all these billboards down? Is there a 'let's all live moral lives' campaign coming up now? Oh yeah, I heard they are saying they are mot being moralistic. Yeah? So why are they suddenly being 'hot' about these 'hot guys and girls'? Recently many people in the government were promoting the RH Bill. They didn't find the bill in anyway morally questionable. But ironically they find guys in briefs and girls in bras offensive. Don't you think it's funny? If they don't like them wearing undies, what would they want them to wear? Condoms?
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Smoking Ban in Public Places and Manong Driver's Proud Moments
I took a cab yesterday at around 6 pm. The driver's radio was tuned in to TV5's news. There's weather report, crime report and news about the Pajero 7 Bishops. I wasn't really interested in hearing negative issues yesterday (especially the Pajero 7 Bishops) so I opted to just chat with the driver. I only kept quiet when the weather report was read. I was interested to know if the two Low Pressure Areas inside the Philippine area of responsibility have the possibility of turning into typhoons. Anyway, before going to a commercial gap, the announcer mentioned the other news that will still be discussed. One was about Judy Ann Santos and the more than 30 pounds she has already lost since giving birth a few months back. The other one is about MMDA's smoking ban in public areas in Manila.
When the smoking ban in public places was mentioned, the driver asked me if I know anything about it. I said that the only thing I know is that MMDA officers were tasked to apprehend people smoking in public places. I said I don't know exactly which places are considered public and which are not. He said MMDA only patrol major roads so people can still smoke in sari-sari stores found on side streets. I didn't have a clear idea why he asked me about the smoking ban. I just thought that he is a smoker and he wants to discuss his views regarding the issue. Then he suddenly said "You know sir, I was interviewed by a TV5 reporter about this issue." I said ah this is why he opened up the discussion about the smoking ban. I asked when. He said it was just a few hours ago after he used one of the MMDA urinals along EDSA. It turned out MMDA is contemplating on the idea of allowing smokers to smoke inside the said urinals. I said excitedly "Manong, we are going to hear your interview in a few minutes. It's a pity we do not have mobile tv." He said it was fine because news on tv are usually repeated late in the evening. I could hear in his voice that he was very excited.
When that segment was aired I heard Manong saying that he is not in favor of that idea because the urinals as it is already smell bad so it would be worse if people will smoke there. I think his answer made sense.
Anyway, I realized that it gave me a good feeling being there to share that 'moment' with Manong. I knew he was excited to hear his interview and it would have been such a bummer if he was alone inside the cab. There was pride in his eyes when his voice came out of the radio. That pride would not have been complete if there was no one to recognize it. I was happy I decided to chat with him so he had the chance to use the bragging rights that came along with that interview.
Way to go Manong driver. Oh, let me just add, Manong does not smoke. Again, way to go Manong driver.
When the smoking ban in public places was mentioned, the driver asked me if I know anything about it. I said that the only thing I know is that MMDA officers were tasked to apprehend people smoking in public places. I said I don't know exactly which places are considered public and which are not. He said MMDA only patrol major roads so people can still smoke in sari-sari stores found on side streets. I didn't have a clear idea why he asked me about the smoking ban. I just thought that he is a smoker and he wants to discuss his views regarding the issue. Then he suddenly said "You know sir, I was interviewed by a TV5 reporter about this issue." I said ah this is why he opened up the discussion about the smoking ban. I asked when. He said it was just a few hours ago after he used one of the MMDA urinals along EDSA. It turned out MMDA is contemplating on the idea of allowing smokers to smoke inside the said urinals. I said excitedly "Manong, we are going to hear your interview in a few minutes. It's a pity we do not have mobile tv." He said it was fine because news on tv are usually repeated late in the evening. I could hear in his voice that he was very excited.
When that segment was aired I heard Manong saying that he is not in favor of that idea because the urinals as it is already smell bad so it would be worse if people will smoke there. I think his answer made sense.
Anyway, I realized that it gave me a good feeling being there to share that 'moment' with Manong. I knew he was excited to hear his interview and it would have been such a bummer if he was alone inside the cab. There was pride in his eyes when his voice came out of the radio. That pride would not have been complete if there was no one to recognize it. I was happy I decided to chat with him so he had the chance to use the bragging rights that came along with that interview.
Way to go Manong driver. Oh, let me just add, Manong does not smoke. Again, way to go Manong driver.
Monday, July 4, 2011
A Blessing or A Curse
What have you done to me?
You have completely imprisoned my heart, mind, body and soul.
Not a single moment passes by without me thinking of you.
You have completely taken me captive to the point that my life revolves around you.
But baby I feel so insecure.
Things are happening so fast that I am not really sure if it is really happening.
I always have moments of doubts because of the circumstances we were and we are in.
You say I should trust but can I really do?
My life now is hanging by a thread and you have full control.
A single mistake is fatal, that much I know.
So will you keep your promise that you'll hold me forever
Or should I cut the thread now and let my self fall while the drop is not yet too tall.
Tell me baby that you're real.
True love from you is all I want to feel.
Are you really the blessing from heaven I've been waiting for?
Or are you the curse with whom I have to deal.
You have completely imprisoned my heart, mind, body and soul.
Not a single moment passes by without me thinking of you.
You have completely taken me captive to the point that my life revolves around you.
But baby I feel so insecure.
Things are happening so fast that I am not really sure if it is really happening.
I always have moments of doubts because of the circumstances we were and we are in.
You say I should trust but can I really do?
My life now is hanging by a thread and you have full control.
A single mistake is fatal, that much I know.
So will you keep your promise that you'll hold me forever
Or should I cut the thread now and let my self fall while the drop is not yet too tall.
Tell me baby that you're real.
True love from you is all I want to feel.
Are you really the blessing from heaven I've been waiting for?
Or are you the curse with whom I have to deal.
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Heard and Seen: Love or No love, Lip gloss, Real Pearls
Heard and Seen
Two teenagers waiting for a ride were talking (in Filipino but here is my English version):
Girl: Whatever happened to us?
Boy: There is no us!
Girl: What?
Boy: There never was!
Girl: But you text me everyday! You call me every night! We go on dates! We watch movies together! You even hold my hands (this last one said with a very soft voice I almost didn't catch it).
Boy: But did ever hear me say I love you?
Girl: Tears....tears....tears....She cried a lot I thought there would be a second Ondoy.
I really do not know who to blame here. Did the girl assume too much? I mean the guy didn't profess his love, right? Or did the boy played with the girl's emotion? But whoever is at fault, my heart goes to the girl. I pity her because I could see that she was really hurt. I think she really loves the boy.
Seen
While eating at the Food Court of Robinsons Galleria, I saw two girls seating next to each other. One was putting on blush on while the other was applying lip gloss (that kind where you need to use a brush attached to the cap of the lip gloss tube).
After about a minute of this beautification process, the girl using the blush on handed the kit to the other girl and the other girl in turn handed the lip gloss to her. Then they used whatever they have now in their hands.
Can you really share those stuff? I mean I could possibly accept sharing blush on but not lip gloss. Can you? It's like the two of them kissed.
Heard and seen
Customer: Are these pearls real?
Sales lady: Yes ma'am, they are real.
Customer: But they do not look real.
Sales lady: Ma'am if you want pearls that really look real then you should have this (shows another string of pearls taken from the lower display cabinet).
Customer: What's the difference?
Sales lady: These are more real (mas totoo) than the other string.
So what does that make of the other string? Sort of real? Somewhat real? Semi real? Class A? AA? AAA? Quadruple A?
Two teenagers waiting for a ride were talking (in Filipino but here is my English version):
Girl: Whatever happened to us?
Boy: There is no us!
Girl: What?
Boy: There never was!
Girl: But you text me everyday! You call me every night! We go on dates! We watch movies together! You even hold my hands (this last one said with a very soft voice I almost didn't catch it).
Boy: But did ever hear me say I love you?
Girl: Tears....tears....tears....She cried a lot I thought there would be a second Ondoy.
I really do not know who to blame here. Did the girl assume too much? I mean the guy didn't profess his love, right? Or did the boy played with the girl's emotion? But whoever is at fault, my heart goes to the girl. I pity her because I could see that she was really hurt. I think she really loves the boy.
Seen
While eating at the Food Court of Robinsons Galleria, I saw two girls seating next to each other. One was putting on blush on while the other was applying lip gloss (that kind where you need to use a brush attached to the cap of the lip gloss tube).
After about a minute of this beautification process, the girl using the blush on handed the kit to the other girl and the other girl in turn handed the lip gloss to her. Then they used whatever they have now in their hands.
Can you really share those stuff? I mean I could possibly accept sharing blush on but not lip gloss. Can you? It's like the two of them kissed.
Heard and seen
Customer: Are these pearls real?
Sales lady: Yes ma'am, they are real.
Customer: But they do not look real.
Sales lady: Ma'am if you want pearls that really look real then you should have this (shows another string of pearls taken from the lower display cabinet).
Customer: What's the difference?
Sales lady: These are more real (mas totoo) than the other string.
So what does that make of the other string? Sort of real? Somewhat real? Semi real? Class A? AA? AAA? Quadruple A?
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Do You Like Rainy Days?
"It is a rainy day today" - I heard the preschool pupils say when the teacher asked them to describe the weather. They were so energetic when they shouted that out. I wonder where they get their energy on such a bed-weather day.
Do you like rainy days? If you'd ask me I'd say not really. You see traffic in Manila usually turns from bad to worse whenever it rains. You could also immediately expect flooding in some streets after a few minutes of rain. And to top it all, it is difficult to look for a cab. It seems that rainwater melts cabs. If you are lucky enough to find an unoccupied cab, the driver will ask you for 'dagdag' (30 to 100 pesos addition to the fare).
I also find it difficult to drag myself to work when it is raining. The bed just seems to be pulling me harder during these times. If I am successful in bringing my self to work, I usually feel sluggish.
Please don't get me wrong. There are also things I like about the rain. The cool weather it brings for example is very much welcome for me. I perspire a lot so I love it when the surroundings is cool.
Life in Manila has also become so fast in the recent years. The rainy season sort of calms people down.
Why am I talking about the rain again? Ah! Because of the preschoolers I heard telling their teacher that it is a rainy day today.
I hope you don't get stuck in traffic tonight folks.
Do you like rainy days? If you'd ask me I'd say not really. You see traffic in Manila usually turns from bad to worse whenever it rains. You could also immediately expect flooding in some streets after a few minutes of rain. And to top it all, it is difficult to look for a cab. It seems that rainwater melts cabs. If you are lucky enough to find an unoccupied cab, the driver will ask you for 'dagdag' (30 to 100 pesos addition to the fare).
I also find it difficult to drag myself to work when it is raining. The bed just seems to be pulling me harder during these times. If I am successful in bringing my self to work, I usually feel sluggish.
Please don't get me wrong. There are also things I like about the rain. The cool weather it brings for example is very much welcome for me. I perspire a lot so I love it when the surroundings is cool.
Life in Manila has also become so fast in the recent years. The rainy season sort of calms people down.
Why am I talking about the rain again? Ah! Because of the preschoolers I heard telling their teacher that it is a rainy day today.
I hope you don't get stuck in traffic tonight folks.
Friday, June 3, 2011
The RH (Reproductive Health) Bill
Much has been said about the RH bill. A lot of people have already expressed - in different manners - their thoughts about it. I have not read the fine prints about it so it's difficult to really go out and join debates. But this does not mean that I do not have my stand about it. My position is that I am not in favor of it primarily because I believe in the church's stand that we should preserve life at all times. In my opinion, allowing people to have a hand in deciding whether a child could and should live or not is a no-no.
Yes, we have been given free will by our creator. We can pretty much choose freely because we have been given the intellect to do so. But you, there are also rules that have been set. The Bible has set of rules that we have to live by - the 10 Commandments for example.
I am afraid of what the RH bill could do to the values system of the Filipinos. It is possible that it will give our youth the courage to have sex with just about anyone because they no longer have fear about 'accidental' pregnancy. It is also possible that it will give men (and women) the courage to 'play around' because they know they can be 'safe'. Think about what it can do to the family.
If RH bill existed in the past, it is possible that I wouldn't be here writing this blog. I could have been that fertilized egg cell that failed to attach itself to the uterus of my mom because of some plastic with string placed in there. It is possible that one of our senators wouldn't be there in the senate giving his or her privilege speech because the sperm cell that would fertilize the egg cell from his or her mom was blocked by a thin sheet of rubber. Think about this: the fertilized egg that was chemically killed could have been YOU!
Yes, we have been given free will by our creator. We can pretty much choose freely because we have been given the intellect to do so. But you, there are also rules that have been set. The Bible has set of rules that we have to live by - the 10 Commandments for example.
I am afraid of what the RH bill could do to the values system of the Filipinos. It is possible that it will give our youth the courage to have sex with just about anyone because they no longer have fear about 'accidental' pregnancy. It is also possible that it will give men (and women) the courage to 'play around' because they know they can be 'safe'. Think about what it can do to the family.
If RH bill existed in the past, it is possible that I wouldn't be here writing this blog. I could have been that fertilized egg cell that failed to attach itself to the uterus of my mom because of some plastic with string placed in there. It is possible that one of our senators wouldn't be there in the senate giving his or her privilege speech because the sperm cell that would fertilize the egg cell from his or her mom was blocked by a thin sheet of rubber. Think about this: the fertilized egg that was chemically killed could have been YOU!
Friday, May 20, 2011
Tips to pass job interviews - learn from these examples
Looking for tips to pass job interviews? I'm not gonna give you tips but you can read these examples to guide you. Know what to do and what not to do during interviews.
Interviewer: What is your major in Educ?
Applicant: Reading.
I: That's good! So you love reading.
A: Yes! I love reading so much.
I: What types of books do you read?
A: Self-help books because they uplift me whenever I'm down.
I: How often do you read self-help books?
A: Almost everyday!
I: Does that mean you feel down everyday?
A: Ah....ahh....ahh
I: What subjects can you teach aside from English!
A: Reading!
I: (smiles)
A: Oh! Reading is English! Ah...Ah...
Personality problem? hmmmm
............
Interviewer: Good morning!
Applicant: Hi sir!
I: Tell me something about yourself.
A: Hi I'm Maria (fictional name, of course). I'm 24 years old. I'm single. I do not go out a lot, that's why. But once in a while I go out with friends to watch movies.
I: (smiles). Go on!
A: We also party sometimes.
Are we close already or are you trying to flirt with me?
..........
Interviewer: Good morning!
Applicant: Good morning!
I: Have a seat!
A: Thank you!
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.
I: So why did you leave your last job?
A: They do not pay well. And we are overworked.
I: (smiles)
A: And they do not have overtime pay.
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I: Do you have any question?
A: How much is the salary here?
Money! Money! Money!
Interviewer: What is your major in Educ?
Applicant: Reading.
I: That's good! So you love reading.
A: Yes! I love reading so much.
I: What types of books do you read?
A: Self-help books because they uplift me whenever I'm down.
I: How often do you read self-help books?
A: Almost everyday!
I: Does that mean you feel down everyday?
A: Ah....ahh....ahh
I: What subjects can you teach aside from English!
A: Reading!
I: (smiles)
A: Oh! Reading is English! Ah...Ah...
Personality problem? hmmmm
............
Interviewer: Good morning!
Applicant: Hi sir!
I: Tell me something about yourself.
A: Hi I'm Maria (fictional name, of course). I'm 24 years old. I'm single. I do not go out a lot, that's why. But once in a while I go out with friends to watch movies.
I: (smiles). Go on!
A: We also party sometimes.
Are we close already or are you trying to flirt with me?
..........
Interviewer: Good morning!
Applicant: Good morning!
I: Have a seat!
A: Thank you!
.
.
.
.
.
I: So why did you leave your last job?
A: They do not pay well. And we are overworked.
I: (smiles)
A: And they do not have overtime pay.
.
.
.
.
I: Do you have any question?
A: How much is the salary here?
Money! Money! Money!
Thursday, May 12, 2011
Filipino Time - Why are many Filipinos always late?
It's 6:57 pm. I'm still typing this post. That means I'll be late for my 7 pm appointment. Terribly late.
Why do many Filipinos come late for their appointments? Why is there Filipino Time?
Hmmm. I wonder. Is it because we know that Filipinos are also generally 'understanding' so it is okay to be tardy? Is it because many Filipinos are really lazy (Juan Tamad, remember?)?
Whatever the reason is, it is really such as shame to have this attitude, don't you think? Tsk, tsk, tsk. So what am I waiting for? I should be going, right? Tsk, tsk, tsk.
Did I make sense? No? No! I didn't think so too. Whatever, I just wanted to write. Sorry to waste your time.
But seriously, I just want to ask your opinions regarding this. Please share your thoughts at the comments section below. Then I'll write something about this topic again as soon as I get really nice responses. Thanks! Gotta go!
Why do many Filipinos come late for their appointments? Why is there Filipino Time?
Hmmm. I wonder. Is it because we know that Filipinos are also generally 'understanding' so it is okay to be tardy? Is it because many Filipinos are really lazy (Juan Tamad, remember?)?
Whatever the reason is, it is really such as shame to have this attitude, don't you think? Tsk, tsk, tsk. So what am I waiting for? I should be going, right? Tsk, tsk, tsk.
Did I make sense? No? No! I didn't think so too. Whatever, I just wanted to write. Sorry to waste your time.
But seriously, I just want to ask your opinions regarding this. Please share your thoughts at the comments section below. Then I'll write something about this topic again as soon as I get really nice responses. Thanks! Gotta go!
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
Territorial Cough - Secure Your Place
'Ahem!'
This is a sound made when one is trying to suppress a cough, when one has sore throat or when one wants other people to know of his presence.
The last type is called the territorial cough. Where do you often hear it? Yes! It is commonly heard in public toilets. When you are inside a cubicle and you hear someone outside, you make the territorial cough to let the other person know that the cubicle is occupied. It gives you a sense of security that your privacy will not be invaded.
In other areas of our life we also have different versions of the territorial cough. Here are some examples. At work, if you are holding a position of importance, you do the territorial cough in different forms like walking with your chin up, dressing better than the rest, showing a little 'bossy-ness' and acting with confidence. These things help you 'remind' others of the position you are holding.
In the community, those who belong to the 'upper class' also exhibit the territorial cough in various forms. Some would always make it a point to be well-dressed (again better than others) in public. Others would make a way to let other people know how much they spent for this or that car or for this or that party. Still others would give generous donations in church or charity events. Doing these things secures their spot in the community.
You, what's your territorial cough?
This is a sound made when one is trying to suppress a cough, when one has sore throat or when one wants other people to know of his presence.
The last type is called the territorial cough. Where do you often hear it? Yes! It is commonly heard in public toilets. When you are inside a cubicle and you hear someone outside, you make the territorial cough to let the other person know that the cubicle is occupied. It gives you a sense of security that your privacy will not be invaded.
In other areas of our life we also have different versions of the territorial cough. Here are some examples. At work, if you are holding a position of importance, you do the territorial cough in different forms like walking with your chin up, dressing better than the rest, showing a little 'bossy-ness' and acting with confidence. These things help you 'remind' others of the position you are holding.
In the community, those who belong to the 'upper class' also exhibit the territorial cough in various forms. Some would always make it a point to be well-dressed (again better than others) in public. Others would make a way to let other people know how much they spent for this or that car or for this or that party. Still others would give generous donations in church or charity events. Doing these things secures their spot in the community.
You, what's your territorial cough?
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Venus Raj, the young Macho Dancing boy and Ombudsman Merceditas Gutierrez
Quite a lot of issues have hugged the limelight in the last few months. Some of them are funny. Some are irritating. Others are just plain stupid. Anyway, here are some of the stories I've been meaning to react to.
One funny issue is Venus Raj's hair during the Bb. Pilipinas 2011 coronation night. I know this issue is not going to shape the country in anyway but I still find it 'cute' so let me write about it. Her stylist made her hair curly. No! Not those big curls to make the hair 'big and bouncy'. Small waves were made. One comment on twitter says 'Nuestra Senora del Venus Raj'. The one who twitted it is obviously saying that her hair looks like that of a 'poon' (image of a saint ) or Sto. Nino. She is the model of a hair conditioner so what was her stylist thinking. But you know, they were able to use it (the situation) wisely in her newest commercial. Look for transcripts of the presscon for that commercial and read between the lines. Watch the commercial carefully and you will also see a connection. Genius!(This makes me wonder if it was really done on purpose.)
Another issue that made twitter and facebook really busy was that of Willing Willie and the young 'macho dancing' boy. A lot of comments have been said. Threats of legal cases have been hurled from all sides. But for me, the real issue is simple. Just know the difference between being an adult and being a child and you will know what (or who?) is right and wrong. A child may want something (desperately) but you do not necessarily need to give in. If it's going to have negative effects on the child then why allow him or her. Yes, it is an adults responsibility to make a child happy but it is also his or her responsibility to protect the child from anything that will harm him or her now or in the future. And also, not because a child has done something several times in the past means you can allow him to do it again and again. Doing something repeatedly does not make that something right. Right?
The ombudsman issue has also occupied a lot of precious newspaper space. It has been in the news for a rather long time already. However, last I heard, ombudsman Merceditas Gutierrez has already resigned. Some are happy about it. Some are not. Some are happy because she is already out of office they can put somebody they trust (hopefully not somebody they are intending to turn into their own version of Mercy). Some are not happy because they can longer put her on trial (impeachment trial). They say there are also senators who are not happy because they will not be able to show their 'skills' in debate on national tv. They say some are looking forward to it because they need this 'show' to boost their popularity for the next elections. For me, there is really no need for that impeachment case. No need for it to go on tv. People have already judged her anyway. People already have their own conclusions. Thus, I think, it would be better for the case to be tried in a court where there will be no television cameras. It could be in an RTC, in the Sandigan Bayan, the Supreme Court - wherever - just as long as it will not be used to advance the career or popularity of someone.
One funny issue is Venus Raj's hair during the Bb. Pilipinas 2011 coronation night. I know this issue is not going to shape the country in anyway but I still find it 'cute' so let me write about it. Her stylist made her hair curly. No! Not those big curls to make the hair 'big and bouncy'. Small waves were made. One comment on twitter says 'Nuestra Senora del Venus Raj'. The one who twitted it is obviously saying that her hair looks like that of a 'poon' (image of a saint ) or Sto. Nino. She is the model of a hair conditioner so what was her stylist thinking. But you know, they were able to use it (the situation) wisely in her newest commercial. Look for transcripts of the presscon for that commercial and read between the lines. Watch the commercial carefully and you will also see a connection. Genius!(This makes me wonder if it was really done on purpose.)
Another issue that made twitter and facebook really busy was that of Willing Willie and the young 'macho dancing' boy. A lot of comments have been said. Threats of legal cases have been hurled from all sides. But for me, the real issue is simple. Just know the difference between being an adult and being a child and you will know what (or who?) is right and wrong. A child may want something (desperately) but you do not necessarily need to give in. If it's going to have negative effects on the child then why allow him or her. Yes, it is an adults responsibility to make a child happy but it is also his or her responsibility to protect the child from anything that will harm him or her now or in the future. And also, not because a child has done something several times in the past means you can allow him to do it again and again. Doing something repeatedly does not make that something right. Right?
The ombudsman issue has also occupied a lot of precious newspaper space. It has been in the news for a rather long time already. However, last I heard, ombudsman Merceditas Gutierrez has already resigned. Some are happy about it. Some are not. Some are happy because she is already out of office they can put somebody they trust (hopefully not somebody they are intending to turn into their own version of Mercy). Some are not happy because they can longer put her on trial (impeachment trial). They say there are also senators who are not happy because they will not be able to show their 'skills' in debate on national tv. They say some are looking forward to it because they need this 'show' to boost their popularity for the next elections. For me, there is really no need for that impeachment case. No need for it to go on tv. People have already judged her anyway. People already have their own conclusions. Thus, I think, it would be better for the case to be tried in a court where there will be no television cameras. It could be in an RTC, in the Sandigan Bayan, the Supreme Court - wherever - just as long as it will not be used to advance the career or popularity of someone.
Friday, April 29, 2011
The Royal Wedding - Trivia - Things you've always wanted to know
Everybody's going gaga over the Royal Wedding - wedding of His Royal Highness Prince William and Kate Middleton. Every local and international news organization is making a feature about it. Everybody is trying to get something 'exclusive' for higher ratings. What is it that make us all suddenly interested about these young couple? For us here in the Philippines, I think the fairytale aspect of it is a big factor. Every girl - and I guess almost every boy - is familiar with the Cinderella story. Not that Kate is as 'lowly' as Cinderella but we all know she does not come from any Royal lineage. The thought that an ordinary girl could (and would) marry a prince is really something to talk to about.
Anyway, here are some things about the wedding - directly related or otherwise - that I found on the net. I would not mention sources anymore. I will not be copying them verbatim anyway.
1. Kate will not be called Princess Catherine of Wales since the title princess is received through birth.
2. Kate will be called HRH the Princess William of Wales unless of course the queen gives her another title.
3. 1900 people will witness the actual wedding ceremony.
4. 600 will be invited to the wedding reception.
5. 300 will be part of the wedding dinner to be hosted by Prince Charles.
6. Everything is carefully timed. It is not going to be as spontaneous as other weddings.
7. Kate cannot eat shellfish anymore. British Royals never do.
8. There are accounts that say Prince William and Kate rehearsed their kiss. I do not think they did that because they don't know how to but rather because they have to do it at a right angle that can be captured by the camera.
9. Kate is the eldest Royal bride.
10. Kate reportedly designed her own wedding gown. The gown was kept secret because they believe that Prince William cannot and must not see the gown until she reaches the altar.
There are still a lot of these things in other sites. Some sounds cute. Others sound funny. Still others sound rather silly.
Anyway, here are some things about the wedding - directly related or otherwise - that I found on the net. I would not mention sources anymore. I will not be copying them verbatim anyway.
1. Kate will not be called Princess Catherine of Wales since the title princess is received through birth.
2. Kate will be called HRH the Princess William of Wales unless of course the queen gives her another title.
3. 1900 people will witness the actual wedding ceremony.
4. 600 will be invited to the wedding reception.
5. 300 will be part of the wedding dinner to be hosted by Prince Charles.
6. Everything is carefully timed. It is not going to be as spontaneous as other weddings.
7. Kate cannot eat shellfish anymore. British Royals never do.
8. There are accounts that say Prince William and Kate rehearsed their kiss. I do not think they did that because they don't know how to but rather because they have to do it at a right angle that can be captured by the camera.
9. Kate is the eldest Royal bride.
10. Kate reportedly designed her own wedding gown. The gown was kept secret because they believe that Prince William cannot and must not see the gown until she reaches the altar.
There are still a lot of these things in other sites. Some sounds cute. Others sound funny. Still others sound rather silly.
Saturday, April 16, 2011
Vivere Salon - Great Service
I had a haircut yesterday at Vivere Salon, Robinson's Place, Manila. It was my first time there. My friend who is a regular client of the salon convinced me to try their services. It was a good thing I said yes. The staff gave me a rather good service. The hairstylist - I think his name is Leo - 'studied' my head first before he started cutting. He looked at me from different angles. I assume he was thinking of what haircut will fit me best. I actually like the outcome. New style. Younger look haha. However, I know its going to be hard for me to style my hair that way again. I don't have a blower, you see. The assitant - his name is John - was also okay. He washed my hair thoroughly. He gave me a good back massage - although it would have been better if he made it a little harder. The only drawback is that there were too many 'assistants' in the place that it's become a bit too noisy to relax.
Overall, it was a good experience albeit a bit expensive. But I think I'll be back. Wanna see my hairstyle? Naaaaa.....maybe next time
Overall, it was a good experience albeit a bit expensive. But I think I'll be back. Wanna see my hairstyle? Naaaaa.....maybe next time
Friday, April 15, 2011
7 Churches for Visita Iglesia plus Visita Iglesia Online
It's Holy Week next week. As I prepare to go to the province for this week-long vacation, I cannot help but recall the traditions that is associated with the week - some of them I have experienced, others I have yet to taste. One of the things a lot of people do during Holy Week is Visita Iglesia. Visita Iglesia means visiting 7 churches to pray the 14 stations of the cross - 2 stations per church, I think. I've done this only once in Quezon. We visited the churches in Candelaria, Sariaya, Tayabas, Lucban, 2 churches in Lucena City and Pagbilao. Anyway, I know it is hard to look for 7 churches here in Metro Manila that are strategically located such that you will be able to visit them all in one day. But don't worry, I have here an itinerary for the Makati, Pasay and Paranaque area.
1. Santuario de San Antonio. MsKinley Road, Forbes Park, Makati City.
2. National Shrine of the Sacred Heart. Kamagong cor Sacred Heart Sts., San Antonio Village, Makati City.
3. St. John Bosco Parish Church. Arnaiz Avenue, Makati City
4. St. Alphonsus Mary de Ligouri Parish (Magallanes Church). Humabon St., Magallanes Village, Makati City.
5. Sta. Clara de Montefalco Parish. P. Burgos St. Pasay City (Beside Pasay General Hospital)
6. National Shrine of Our Mother of Perpetual Church (Baclaran Church or Redemptorist Church). Baclaran, Paranaque City.
7. Shrine of Jesus, the Way, the Truth and the Life. SM Mall of Asia Complex (near SMX).
These churches are easy to find and they are not very far away from each other. You will surely find your way easily.
For those who cannot go out to visit these churches like those who are bedridden, the Catholic Church has devised a solution for you - Visita Iglesia online. Talk about going high tech. You can now visit http://visitaiglesia.net However, let not the presence of this site be an excuse for you to really go and physically visit churches in your area.
Have a meaningful Holy Week everyone. And those going to the provinces, INGAT (take care)!
1. Santuario de San Antonio. MsKinley Road, Forbes Park, Makati City.
2. National Shrine of the Sacred Heart. Kamagong cor Sacred Heart Sts., San Antonio Village, Makati City.
3. St. John Bosco Parish Church. Arnaiz Avenue, Makati City
4. St. Alphonsus Mary de Ligouri Parish (Magallanes Church). Humabon St., Magallanes Village, Makati City.
5. Sta. Clara de Montefalco Parish. P. Burgos St. Pasay City (Beside Pasay General Hospital)
6. National Shrine of Our Mother of Perpetual Church (Baclaran Church or Redemptorist Church). Baclaran, Paranaque City.
7. Shrine of Jesus, the Way, the Truth and the Life. SM Mall of Asia Complex (near SMX).
These churches are easy to find and they are not very far away from each other. You will surely find your way easily.
For those who cannot go out to visit these churches like those who are bedridden, the Catholic Church has devised a solution for you - Visita Iglesia online. Talk about going high tech. You can now visit http://visitaiglesia.net However, let not the presence of this site be an excuse for you to really go and physically visit churches in your area.
Have a meaningful Holy Week everyone. And those going to the provinces, INGAT (take care)!
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